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Sun square North Node

Not sure what you want

Kelli Fox

It's difficult for you to figure out what you want in terms of a loving, committed future with someone special. You know that you do want love in your life, and intimacy; but with whom, and when, and how to go about making it happen, are all mysteries. You might feel like your future path precludes you from committing to a lover.

Perhaps you have a job that makes you move around a lot or spend long hours at the office, and getting deeply involved with someone just doesn't seem possible, much less fair to them. Whatever the source of your confusion and inhibition might be, it constantly seems as if your timing is off. You're holding back while your lover is pushing forward, hoping for a commitment; and just when you get up your nerve to say, Yes, let's take that step -- they've lost faith that it's going to happen, and they've moved on to someone new. This type of indecision can really hold you back from making things happen in your life. What are you afraid of? If you're afraid of heading in the wrong direction or making a mistake in the game of love, just remember that even mistakes can be helpful; at least they're movement, instead of stagnation.

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  1. Cubie on October 15, 2017 at 7:10 pm

    Was always wondering why I could not choose a love for life. Was married for 18 years before divorced and been single now 35 years, but having a problem choosing a new mate from many choices. Do not like to be tied down while enjoying my privacy to do what I please. Now I’m 75 and in great shape physically, mentally fit and financially secure with no great desire to change.

  2. Mccotter on January 18, 2018 at 11:55 pm

    Love it

  3. Kiahro on June 22, 2018 at 6:42 am

    Well I know what I want and how I want him to be, it’s just I don’t find it; or even when I did, he wasn’t interested in me.

    My sun is also conjunct venus, mercury and saturn forming a stellium in aquarius-pisces so it might be the cause.

  4. babe on May 8, 2019 at 10:48 pm

    had a boyfriend that i just recently moved from then i discovered that his lack of commitment no matter how i tried was due to the fact that his sun squares his lunar node. i did everything i could but nothing seemed to be working. our only real connection was sexual intimacy. intimacy was strong- very strong but that was it!! i thought he was cheating but it wasn’t really the case. he just didn’t have what it takes to commit and for one year, our relation was stuck in the beginning phase. his fiance before me left him. i guess she couldn’t handle that lack of commitment. he even told me one day that his ex fiance used to complain about the exact same things i complained of so u see this is really a big struggle.it is a big internal demon and i feel sorry for him

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