When it comes to striking out into the world and making things happen, you're used to relying on other people more than on yourself. For this reason, you might hang back and let that special someone pursue you rather than getting out there and making your feelings known. You're attracted to people who are willing to take the reins of the relationship, who let you rely on them for guidance, support and direction.
You want a lover who will decide where to go together and when; who will set the timeline in terms of when to deepen the affair, when to move in together or make a commitment and so on. But where are you in all this? Every relationship is a two-way street, and if you're leaving everything up to your sweetie, that's both too much pressure and too much control. When it comes to your own path in life -- your career path or realizing any other kind of goal -- you need to start depending more on yourself rather than leaning so heavily on your honey for guidance. This is your life, and it's time that you start living it in a more independent way. Your best opportunities will be the ones you stick your own neck out for -- the ones you go after with drive and determination.