Your close friends know just how strange a conversation with you can be, and your dates and admirers will find out the same thing! You tend to swing back and forth in your perceptions; you have a very fluid and unusual view of the world, and you see no problem with changing your opinion without warning. Except you're also really stubborn, so it can be frustrating to talk to you because whatever your idea du jour might be, you'll stand behind it and defend it as if it were your very personality -- even if, yesterday, you said the exact opposite thing.
In romance, your sweetie may not know how to take the things you say, or whether to take you seriously. You're attracted to people who are similar to you, however, in the sense that they have strong ideas. But since you have this tendency to swing back and forth in your own thinking, you may be overly influenced by your sweetie's point of view, at least until someone else comes along with a newer and even more attractive idea! Some stability in your thinking is definitely called for. While flexibility, passion and originality are wonderful traits, they should be tempered with balance.