In a past life you must have been downtrodden in one way or another, because you're making up for it in this life with strength and confidence! You set the pace among your friends and loved ones, and in your love life as well. You're often the one who decides where to go, what to do and when to leave.
You're not afraid to put forth your opinions, or to act on them. It's not that you're a bully -- at least, not all the time. You're just strong-willed, and you're not afraid of conflict. You've got a lot of passion for life in general, and you're willing to put your money where your mouth is. You recognize that life isn't going to happen to you; you make it happen. But when you're feeling backed into a corner, you'll fight. In love, that means you have to make sure that you find a partner who's just as strong and directed as you are. If you hook up with someone who's weak, a follower, you'll run over them like a steamroller! The kind of strength that you possess needs its equal in order to stay balanced in a relationship. Otherwise, you could verge without realizing it into the role of dictator, running the show while your weak-willed honey jumps to do your every bidding.