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Mars conjunct South Node

Running in circles

Kelli Fox

You have a hard time letting a love affair progress naturally toward a commitment, because somewhere deep inside yourself, you're afraid of getting in too deep. But the result of this fear is the stagnation of the relationship, and that's no fun either; so lots of times, your unconscious response is to stir things up by causing trouble -- passionate displays of jealousy, maybe, or choosing battles that really don't need to be fought. Creating all this drama can create the illusion that the relationship is going somewhere -- after all, a lot's happening, right?

Wrong. Drama is not the same as passion; turmoil is certainly not the same as progress. If you're running around in circles, you're still stuck in the same endless loop, even though you're moving. Take a look at the relationships you've been in before; if you can identify a pattern in how things progressed -- or failed to progress -- and then ultimately ended, you've got the seeds for change. And change is essential, if you want to find the love you crave. Making a lasting, loving, stable bond with someone special will require that you give up your old tricks and find a new way to relate, including commitment.

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  1. may on June 4, 2018 at 9:55 am

    brilliant, my partner was in a loveless marriage, but would not divorce, she died.
    I have been in a relationship for 22 years, he won’t commit, because of his children, and ex-brother-in-law do not like me.
    will I die a spinster

    • Jesse on June 7, 2018 at 6:30 pm

      So you both had mars conjunct south node? I’m currently dating someone with this aspect.

      • dada on November 23, 2018 at 7:33 am

        this ma help: North Node Conjunction Mars
        Natal Aspect Meaning
        The positive thing about this aspect is that it gives people vigour and determination that help them achieve their goals. They can fight with passion for what is important to them.
        The negative side of this aspect is that it can cause great inner tension and frustration, because the fighting spirit and the desire to conquer can distract these people from the focal point if their life instead of pulling them towards it. There is a danger that they will create artificial image of their enemy as a result of suppressed aggression. The behaviour of these people is often inappropriate and their responses may be exaggerated.

  2. may on June 4, 2018 at 10:12 am

    brilliant, my partner was in a loveless marriage, but would not divorce, she died.
    I have been in a relationship for 22 years, he won’t commit, because of his children, and ex-brother-in-law do not like me.
    will I die a spinster?

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