Your inclination is to be secretive in love as well as in life. Instead of coming out in the open with your feelings for that special someone, you prefer to operate behind the scenes, manipulating or even tricking them into a relationship with you instead of being aboveboard about it. This can be fun for both of you, but sometimes the direct, honest approach is better.
After all, what are you afraid will happen if you're open about your attraction? Maybe your desires are just too confusing for you to deal with them directly. It can be hard for you to figure out what you're feeling, much less why. You might just drift along, going with the flow of whatever comes instead of making firm decisions about what you want out of love, and going for it. For this reason, your love life up till now may have been a long line of confusing relationships that didn't really go anywhere, because how can they? When you feel like you don't know what you want, or who, you might allow yourself to be led by whoever comes along, or to get lost in dreams and fantasies of what could be, if only... It's better to take direct action, even though you might really have to push yourself.