If your lover is too predictable or conservative, the relationship probably won't last long, because when it comes to love, you want a bit of spice. Some mystery. Some wackiness!
You need a partner who surprises you regularly with out-there ideas, unique projects and a healthy dose of emotional aloofness to keep you on your toes. That's right -- you're actually attracted to people who aren't entirely emotionally available to you. Not in a deep or negative way, of course; but if your sweetie falls at your feet in devotion, you feel like all the magic is gone. You much prefer a lover who keeps you guessing as to when they'll be available. Think of it as the brilliant professor type, who only emerges from the lab every now and again and only for short periods before stealing away again to find expression for their mad genius. You also need a strong foundation of friendship in your intimate relationship; you want to feel like you and your honey are friends, first and last. Needless to say, you're not exactly 'married to' the idea of traditional relationship structures, either (pardon the pun). You're open to different ways for you and your honey to make your relationship work uniquely for you.