Even if you experience setbacks in love during this two-to-three-year transit, you know you can deal with them. Any obstacles in love only make you stronger, and more able to bear the weight of true love later. Because even true love isn't effortless; it involves knowledge and hard work and trust, all of which are easier the stronger you are.
So take the opportunity offered by this transit to fortify yourself in love. Learn as much as you can about yourself and your needs in a relationship, and the strengths that you bring to one. Focus on your goals in love; as sober and unromantic as that sounds, it's a great way to get where you want to go, because it keeps your eyes on the prize -- that stable, steady connection that you're seeking. If it doesn't happen right away, it only means you're not ready yet. This period is the perfect time to take a close look at yourself and see what needs changing. Have you been too aloof or clingy in past relationships, or too aggressive or shy? Whatever it is, you can correct it now. Try out your methods on someone new and special! You'll be amazed at what you can accomplish now in terms of personal transformation.