Your self-confidence will be depleted during this two-year transit, and a series of setbacks in love could leave you feeling discouraged about the whole process of looking for the perfect match. This doesn't have to turn into a complete and total wash; with some distinct effort on your part, you could turn this into a good learning experience that will help you out for the rest of your life. First of all, you're going to have to abandon some of your dearest ideals regarding love.
The reality of your relationships just won't live up to the dreamy connection you've fantasized about a thousand times, and it could feel like a huge comedown to let some of those ideals go. But it might be the only way to experience some relief during this transit. Besides, establishing a new, more realistic and holistic view of the possibilities inherent in love is a good thing, not a bad one. You'll certainly feel disoriented at first as your fantasy structures start breaking down; and rejections in love will wear on your insecurities. After a while, as your view of love starts to match up more with your experiences, you'll regain some of your old hopefulness and optimism about the future.