If you want your connection to survive this tumultuous year, you'll both have to be willing to make some changes in the ways that you relate to one another, and perhaps even in the ways that you look at the relationship itself. Something isn't working between you anymore -- an outmoded way of communicating, maybe, or a way of being romantically close that's just not cutting it anymore. Ignoring the problem isn't working either; you can't just grin and pretend everything's swell, because it isn't and you both know it.
You also both know that you deserve better than what you've been getting, and that you can do better than how you've been treating your honey. So what are you going to do about it? Be creative in the way you meet this challenge; the more innovative you are, the better. Find new ways of relating and letting each other know how much you care. This may involve claiming a lot more freedom within the relationship than you've previously had, which won't be a smooth transition -- but things will settle back into a groove soon enough. For now, try to enjoy the fact that you're discovering new surprises about each other and yourselves.