This aspect helps you smooth over any rough patches that may occur in your relationship, because you instinctively know when to make a compromise in order to keep things harmonious. It's not that your lover is a pushover when it comes to you; they certainly stand up for their position when it's truly important. But harmony is a focus between you, an ideal that you work hard to attain together.
You don't want to argue with each other much, and if you have other more aggressive aspects between you, this one greatly tones down that troublesome energy. You strive to be gentle with each other, and to show each other how much you care. And you do so in a variety of ways -- with a special glance or touch, or a letter or email that speaks of your love. You are both very creative in the expression of your feelings, and you work hard to keep the love alive. You're the couple that all your friends envy, and you have plenty of friends. You love cultivating an active social life, as it only feeds the exciting, romantic energy that runs like a current between you. Traveling together or working on a creative project goes well, because you always take special care to deal with one another kindly and gently. Just make sure that you don't become so comfortable together that you become complacent! Even the best of relationships needs nurturing.