This relationship makes you both itchy, and not in a good way. You don't feel like you have enough freedom or space to be yourself, but instead of trying to work within the relationship to make things more comfortable for both of you, you might just break up with this person, suddenly and without warning. This would be an okay way of dealing with it, if it weren't for the fact that you have a real connection that means something to both of you.
So once the bad feelings wear off, your good feelings set back in -- and you get together again. This aspect definitely encourages the kind of relationship where you break up and get back together again, over and over, because you just aren't able to strike a healthy, comfortable balance -- or even to make up your mind about what, exactly, you want. A word of warning: trying to conform to what other people expect of you is certain death for the relationship. If your lover is just pushing for a commitment because their parents want them to get married, for example, they might wake up someday and realize they've tied themselves to a person they don't even know, much less like. You'd hate to be on the other end of that equation! That's the kind of trouble you run into with this aspect between you. The erratic nature of your bond could prove to be too much for both of you.