If there's something that you've always wanted to do but felt too scared or otherwise held back to try, now's the time -- because this relationship serves as the perfect springboard into the unknown. You, especially,offer your lover exactly the kind of support and encouragement they need to try something new, to step onto new ground and see how they like it. Efforts and accomplishments as small and personal as getting out of the house more and being more social to ones that are as big and life-changing as switching careers are a focus between you.
You give them that gentle push that could be necessary for making a change -- that message that says, Go ahead, try it -- you're smart, you're capable and you're probably great at it! What a wonderful gift to give to your lover. You make them feel as if their more daring, creative ideas are really good ones, ones that are worth exploring. You also help them to stand up for themselves better than they may ever have done before. If they've been in a situation at work or with a friend or family member in which they're getting walked all over, the strength and purpose they derive just from being in this new love affair helps them to take a stand, put their foot down and make things better for themselves. So help them to dare to be different, to make the changes they've been dreaming of. This is the perfect chance.