You are always trying to be independent -- to create more space for yourself and do things in an original way in life. You bring that quality to this relationship, and for your partner, who is more traditional and sedate, that could be quite a distraction! They might feel as if their long-held, quiet rhythms are being disturbed by your energetic, unpredictable soul.
At times, you even seem immature and gratuitously disruptive to them. You're both moving toward your own futures in this relationship, but your partner naturally moves at a more methodical pace, while you go at breakneck speed, perhaps without much precision or planning! You definitely have two different approaches, that's for sure. You disturb the tranquility of your more methodical lover -- but although this could be annoying, it also could have a great effect over time. The frustration they feel at having all their comfortable, well-worn paths diverted forces them into a position in which they have to consider the new possibilities before them -- even if it's just to get back on that old, comfortable path again. Even as forced detours sometimes have the effect of taking you someplace you never knew you wanted to go, this relationship can have a tendency to annoy your partner, sometimes even frustrate the you-know-what out of them -- but ultimately, it makes both of you take a much more active hand in shaping your own destiny.