This creates a tricky, exciting and rather difficult energy between you that could be hard to deal with. Your lover gets irritated with you on minor levels, over and over, and you get annoyed with them too. As time goes on, this happens more and more often until you're just reacting against each other almost without even thinking about it.
It's more the cumulative effect that's bothersome than the individual disagreements themselves. Sexually, you could be somewhat incompatible in a way that's hard to place. Your rhythms are off, and your lover is likely to find it hard to come on to you in the face of what looks to them like your cool detachment. This is likely just a symptom of the deeper issue between you -- this mismatch of energies that can tend toward unpleasant eruptions. This is the kind of aspect that could encourage you both to look more at what's wrong between you than at what's right, and there could be a lot that's right about your relationship. Take care not to overlook it if that's the case. If your partner can tone down their aggressive, argumentative tendencies toward you and if you can warm up any coolness or detachment in the way that you treat them, that goes a long way toward smoothing out this difficult energy.