This aspect makes it really hard for your relationship to last. You could end up feeling as if the connection just isn't worth the pain and irritation that comes with it, unless there are plenty of other aspects between you to promote patience, warmth and affection. This aspect makes you feel very impatient with each other, unable to put up with even the smallest of your buttons being pushed.
You constantly assert your need for independence from your lover and the relationship, which could make your partner respond by trying to force a commitment of some kind. Needless to say, this dynamic puts you on opposite sides of the fence. You're really hard to pin down, which makes your partner irritated, even angry -- and then you aren't operating as the team that you're supposed to be as a couple, but as enemies or adversaries. Arguing as much as you two are likely to do only pushes you farther apart. You start looking at every situation that comes up in your relationship as something to win or lose, and neither of you wants to lose. You might resort to any means necessary to come out on top -- which obscures the fact that in a love relationship, there should be no need for winners and losers. This lack of cooperation is very hard to deal with over time; unless other aspects can help you deal with this one, this relationship may not last.