You are definitely drawn to each other, but with the magnetic appeal you hold for each other also comes plenty of friction. If either of you suspects that the other is being selfish about their needs -- and that won't be a rare occurrence -- you tend get your backs up, for sure. Depending on other aspects between you -- especially ones that heighten the passion between you -- you at times react against both real and imagined slights, instead of trying to stay cool, bite your tongue and talk things out if need be.
When this happens, you should both try to remember what's at stake. If what you have is an otherwise perfectly good relationship, maybe it's worth putting in some hard work to iron out the rough spots. And if you can remind yourselves from time to time that everyone can be a little selfish sometimes -- even you! -- you might have an easier time not taking offense or feeling neglected as a result. After all, a great skill within a relationship is being able to know how to choose your battles. Sometimes it's best just to let your lover have their moment in the spotlight, or their alone time, and go tend to yourself until you can be reunited as a team.