Achieving any goal or moving forward into the future may be somewhat difficult in this relationship. Some basic differences in the ways in which you meet the world become more evident as time goes on. You see your partner as the dreamer, and their carefree attitude and their seeming refusal to get serious might drive you crazy!
Your overly serious, even pessimistic outlook drags them down and switches off their creativity like a light. You find it really hard to view each other in a positive light, which means you don't appreciate each other's strengths. You don't get why your lover does things the way they do. They wonder why you're so serious all the time, so uninspired in your outlook, and you wonder why they seem to love chaos and wild speculation. Both of those views are incorrect and unfair. For example, what looks like limitation and pessimism could actually be strength -- the focus and dedication essential to meeting any goal. What looks like carelessness could actually be an unquenchable, optimistic spirit. If you could both just start seeing the benefits of your lover's way of doing things, you might be able to blend your strengths and make a really formidable team.