If you like to think that you have your life under control and that you always will, this relationship may have come as quite a shock to your system! This is one deep connection that is leading you places you'd never dream of in a million years -- and it isn't always comfortable. Profound, maybe.
Even if you try your hardest to keep things smooth and seemingly 'normal,' things just have a way of sliding deeper and deeper out of control of their own accord. One of the hardest parts of this influence is the projection that runs rampant between you. You have a need for security and stability within a romantic relationship, and you project all those needs onto your partner, holding them personally responsible in your mind whenever you feel vulnerable or off-kilter. Conversely, your partner has the need to let out all their deepest, most powerful and pent-up emotions, and they like to use you as a sounding board to do just that, no matter whether it's convenient for you, hurtful to you and so on. They express their emotions in a loud, explosive way from time to time, because they've just let it build up inside them! Trying to control your partner or the situation is futile -- as you've probably noticed -- so don't even try. Instead, try to learn the lessons this relationship is offering up to you. All of this upheaval and turmoil happens for a reason; it is up to you to figure out what that reason is.