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Pluto square Ascendant

Go with the flow

Kelli Fox

The effects of this aspect can develop in one of two ways; the first is more negative, and is definitely harder to live with. This influence is all about possessing the power to transform your partner. But how do you use it?

You're strongly, even magnetically attracted to them, and that pull between you could actually pose a problem because you want to make them meet all your aching needs and fit all your ideas of the Perfect Lover. If this aspect's more negative potential comes into play, that could get ugly. You might actually try to control them, as you have an idea about how your lover should be conducting their life, how they should behave in relation to you and so on, and you set about trying to make that happen -- even if you have to make it happen by force. Depending on other aspects between you, you might use emotionally manipulative tactics like getting angry when your lover behaves in a way that you don't like, or freezing them out to communicate that you're displeased. Jealousy and possessiveness could become big, painful factors in your relationship if you're not careful. So why not choose option B? You have the power to transform this person, and yourself in the process -- so use it for the good. Don't try to control your lover, or even to 'help' them change for what you think is the better. Instead, take a passive approach. Let their good influence wash over you. You'll be surprised at where you end up if you do.

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  1. Samuel on January 23, 2018 at 9:03 pm

    Hi, my girlfriend introduced me to astrology. Before we meet, I had a deep interest in occult knowlege. The law of attraction/ religion/ conspiracy theories/ Quantum physics and so forth. My girlfriend has the tendency to use my natal chart in her arguments. She tell me to look at my natal chart, study it and that will solve our issues. After many tence moments I started taking it more serious. With my background in spiritual consciousness, and personal development. I have a compacity for this type of knowlege. In studying my own chart, trying to identify my character flaws I wàs able to better categorize thoughts and emotions I had been attempting to correct. I felt that I was aware of things I should avoid and practices I should commit myself to… My committing myself to this relationship could say otherwise. my question is how do I address the problematic aspects or her natal chart that I can clearly see in our interactions Without her being offended? Or saying she’s who taught me astrology, there’s nothing I can teach her? I’m don’t believe that good astrology or psychology. Please enlighten. Thank you

    • Kelli Fox on January 24, 2018 at 1:21 pm

      Dear Samuel,

      thanks for sharing your story. There’s a lot you can teach your girlfriend with regards to astrology! I think the best approach is to start with the positives and offer constructive alternatives for the negative or challenging influences. Astrology is a guide for better understanding and can also enrich your relationship through deep insight.

      Good luck!


  2. Jayanna on January 26, 2018 at 4:55 am

    When You say “You are fascinated with this person”..are you speaking about “I” as the one with the Pluto square ascendant aspect??

    Doesn’t this aspect make u magnetic to your partner as well or is it a one way street??? Thanks

    • Kelli Fox on January 26, 2018 at 9:53 am

      If you entered your birth date first then you are represented by Pluto. 🙂

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