The effects of this aspect can develop in one of two ways; the first is more negative, and is definitely harder to live with. This influence is all about possessing the power to transform your partner. But how do you use it?
You're strongly, even magnetically attracted to them, and that pull between you could actually pose a problem because you want to make them meet all your aching needs and fit all your ideas of the Perfect Lover. If this aspect's more negative potential comes into play, that could get ugly. You might actually try to control them, as you have an idea about how your lover should be conducting their life, how they should behave in relation to you and so on, and you set about trying to make that happen -- even if you have to make it happen by force. Depending on other aspects between you, you might use emotionally manipulative tactics like getting angry when your lover behaves in a way that you don't like, or freezing them out to communicate that you're displeased. Jealousy and possessiveness could become big, painful factors in your relationship if you're not careful. So why not choose option B? You have the power to transform this person, and yourself in the process -- so use it for the good. Don't try to control your lover, or even to 'help' them change for what you think is the better. Instead, take a passive approach. Let their good influence wash over you. You'll be surprised at where you end up if you do.