This could be a life-changing relationship for your lover, especially, and that's even more of a gift than you may realize. The benefits of moving to a new level aren't just confined to this lifetime; they mark the end of an old cycle that is finally laid to rest. You two were involved in a past life, and you may have been through something big and difficult together, perhaps as lovers but maybe even as warriors.
You actually tried to manipulate, dominate or control this person back then, and it was probably a difficult relationship that caused both of you a lot of grief. The good news is, in this lifetime, you've moved through all that old strife to a new plane of existence. You have an opportunity to come together again, but in a brand-new way. Instead of using force and manipulation, as you did all those lifetimes ago, this time, you're aboveboard with your lover. You make a commitment within yourself to honesty, and you treat them as well as you know how. You support them and help them to make that incredible spiritual transformation that finally allows you both to graduate to a new level of humanhood.