The effect of this aspect is powerfully transformative for your lover, especially, and they never are the same again after being involved with you. This could be the relationship you've both been looking for all along, the one that lasts, because it holds such a powerful sway over you. From the very beginning, your lover recognized that power in you.
They feel a sense of calm, deep alertness when you're together, and they know that something big is about to happen. And it does! This relationship gives them the forum and the strength and support they need to grow -- to get strong -- to become the person they've been all along, but perhaps they haven't felt supported enough to shine. Well, they shine in this relationship. You give them what they need to feel self-empowered. Sometimes, we can get involved with people who secretly, deep down, don't want us to be strong or independent; because of their own insecurities, they want us to be small and insecure as well. That is the opposite of this relationship, and what a refreshing difference! You both admire the strength you find in each other, and your partner, especially, emulates it in their own life. Your sexual connection runs strong and true, and is another source of power and pleasure for both of you. You both learn to shine.