This person is curiously fascinated by you, even though they probably don't find you to be their normal type when it comes to lovers. They might make a commitment to you prematurely, before they know how much you really mean to them, or how well you truly get along. As a result, your physical or sensual bond might not feel completely natural to either of you.
As time goes on, you might start scrutinizing your relationship, trying to figure out why you just don't seem to fit together very well. You really want to figure out the problem and solve it, which could be easier said than done. You might respond to the feeling of something being off between you by trying to control or manipulate your lover into being the kind of partner that you really want. This relationship is at risk for becoming an obsessive bond in which neither of you has your needs fulfilled, but you, especially, try hard to exert your will over your partner and get everything you're looking for in a lover. Getting things on a more even keel between you involves adjusting your own needs and desires rather than demanding that they be met. You might never feel as if you really match up, either emotionally or sexually, and it's up to both of you to decide if that's workable or not.