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Pluto opposite Ascendant

Passionate power plays

Kelli Fox

Don't expect to have a light, meaningless connection. Quite to the contrary, whatever feelings you have toward each other are really intense! You either love each other passionately or hate each other even more so -- and you could swing back and forth between the two extremes during arguments or moments of intense intimacy.

All of your biggest, deepest needs in a romantic, intimate relationship are activated in this affair, for better or for worse. You find that you're attracted to this person in a big, almost magnetic way, and it is because of this influence -- this unconscious recognition on your lover's part of your emotional needs, this tendency of theirs to push your buttons on a grand scale. That pull between you could actually pose a problem because you want to make this person meet all your deepest needs and match up with all your ideas of the Perfect Lover, and that could get unpleasant. You could even slide into jealousy and possessiveness with this person if you're not careful, even if that's not your usual style in love. Forewarned is forearmed, though, and you have the power to control this tendency within yourself. Instead of trying to control your lover's every move, you should let them be who they are, and let them influence you. You could be surprised at what transpires!

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  1. Astrofan on May 27, 2019 at 3:19 am

    Is the above Pluto’s perspective or Suns?

    • Kelli Fox on May 27, 2019 at 3:24 pm

      This is from the perspective of the Pluto person. The Sun is not part of this equation. 🙂

  2. ski on July 23, 2019 at 12:22 am

    Who feels the above? The sun or pluto?

    • ski on July 24, 2019 at 12:36 am

      Hi, I meant, who feels the above the ascendant person or the pluto person? Who is more attracted ascendant or pluto?

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