This aspect might not be the easiest one to deal with, but it could strengthen you as a couple. Just be aware that under the influence of this aspect, your bond is tested. Hard times could arise in your lives, forcing you to depend on each other in big ways -- much more than you might have anticipated, especially if you get together with the idea in mind that yours is just a fun, free, simple little affair.
External circumstances such as one of you being laid off from your job or having to find new housing will both test your bond and strengthen it. You end up surprising yourselves with how well you unite as a team and work together to come through the adversity in one piece. But this aspect could also take a different form; it could be that difficulties come up within the relationship itself, and you each have to work hard on your own to meet the challenge. Your lover may be more hardworking and responsible than you are; you might be more intense and spontaneous than they are in response to life's trials. Those are two pretty different ways to operate in life, and you could try to shake things up for your partner by introducing conflicts and crises that don't even really exist, just to force a change! Obviously, it's best to let things flow naturally, because you both change at your own natural pace, but doing that could be easier said than done.