This aspect's exact effects depend on the rest of your relationship -- how well you get along, whether you have an overall positive effect on each other or a difficult time as a couple. Either way, there is a very powerful energy between you that changes both of you -- your lover, especially -- and could change the course of their future. They bring out intense feelings in you -- sometimes dark emotions that surprise you both.
You're definitely taken by surprise by the depth of your feelings regarding each other! This is the kind of relationship that can leave its mark on both of you, for better or for worse. Sometimes the emotions your lover draws out of you are hard ones to deal with, but that doesn't mean that you should shy away from them, or from your partner. Sometimes, the hardest work we can do in a relationship is also the best, most important work. You've both found out things about yourselves that you might never have guessed at -- hidden wells of emotion, of strength, of love that already exist within you, waiting to be accessed. Somehow, the nature of your lover's destiny is shaped and defined by this relationship. Will they struggle against the power of this aspect, or will they allow themselves to be transformed, to graduate to a new level of personal evolution?