You both want to be your own, individual selves in this relationship, and you want to be loved for the individual that you are -- but this aspect between you makes it difficult to foster any kind of real understanding between you, and you, especially, might move along your path in life feeling ignored and misunderstood. This isn't necessarily a big, disruptive influence; instead, it's likely to be one that bothers you on an intermittent basis. You feel neglected to some subtle degree, and you wonder just what it is about your life, your dreams and your goals that your partner can't understand.
But then, you might not get theirs either! This is a mutual misunderstanding, based on a strange lack of clarity when it comes to looking at each other's lives and ambitions. As with most problems in a relationship, a commitment to clear, gentle and honest communication helps, but could be difficult to attain. There is just some blockage between you that impedes your understanding of each other. On the other hand, the necessity of this careful, clear communication could actually be a boon for both of you in your own lives. If you've always had a hard time expressing yourself or accessing your deepest, innermost feelings, this relationship forces you to learn to do just that.