This aspect's exact effect depends on the rest of your relationship -- how well you get along, whether you have an overall positive effect on each other or a difficult time as a couple. Either way, there is a very powerful energy between you that changes both of you -- you, especially -- and could change the course of your future. You bring out intense feelings in your lover -- sometimes dark emotions that surprise you both.
You are definitely taken by surprise by the depth of your feelings regarding each other! This is the kind of relationship that really leave its mark on both of you, for better or for worse. Sometimes the emotions you draw out of your lover are hard ones to deal with, but that doesn't mean that they should shy away from them, or from you. Sometimes, the hardest work we can do in a relationship is also the best, most important work. You both find out things about yourselves that you might never have guessed at -- hidden wells of emotion, of strength, of love that already exist within you, waiting to be accessed. Somehow, the nature of your destiny is shaped and defined by this relationship. Do you struggle against the power of this aspect, or do you allow yourself to be transformed, to graduate to a new level of personal evolution?