Somehow, this relationship confuses your individual idea of where you need to head in life. You two have a strong emotional bond, but it could actually obscure your individuality in the face of the power of your union as a couple. This doesn't happen because of any sort of deliberate manipulation on your partner's behalf; it's just a natural quality of your relationship, one that has to be recognized in order to be worked around.
You might even fall so much in love with your partner that you no longer care about the plans you made before the two of you met; you want to make plans that benefit the relationship. While this feels overwhelming and really romantic, it isn't necessarily the best thing for either of you as individuals. After all, you're both unique people, first and foremost; the relationship may come and go, but you're there through the whole thing, the same person, with the same life path laid out before you. Allowing a relationship to get you off-track isn't a good idea! Instead, you should both try to find a way to honor your own paths in life while also honoring your bond as a couple. You have a very creative, inspiring bond, even an intuitive one; why not use this to inspire you in attaining your own goals, instead of just reveling in couple-dom? That way, you're able to enjoy the best of both worlds!