The compulsive and controlling elements that may have developed between you make for some hard times, to say the least. This could even turn out to be a love-hate relationship, if you felt as if you were drawn into it almost against your will. Your intense feelings for your lover swing either way, like a pendulum -- one minute you are incredibly attracted, even fascinated by them, and the next you might actually be repulsed, wondering, who is this person and why do I like them, again?
This is very confusing for both of you, and could feel unpleasantly like a roller coaster ride. The fact that you are more fascinated by your lover than genuinely attracted could spell bad news, because that variety of attraction isn't necessarily based on their positive characteristics. You could be drawn to them because of some deep, hidden experiences from your past that this new person in your life somehow reminds you of, or represents. Jealousy, possessiveness and emotional manipulation could become major issues between you if you don't take care. It might be that the intensity is too much to handle, and your lover is subconsciously attempting to force a move on your part. If you can stick with this relationship, you'll have to face down your pasts and the deep, compelling psychological bonds that connect you.