You're both energetic and ambitious people in your own ways, but your energies pull you in different directions from where the other needs to go. You've each set a path for yourselves to achieve your career goals, but this relationship could make that trying. Your lover, especially, wants to help you out, and they think they've got a lot of great ideas for you to use -- and then their influence and advice falls on deaf ears, or else they're flat-out rejected as inappropriate.
Their feelings could be hurt by this, and they could even feel jealous or resentful that they're not more involved in things. You should both try not to take it personally. You've just got a different approach from your partner's, different ideas about what works and what doesn't. It might even happen that your lover doesn't match up with the kind of image you try to portray to the world -- and that is hard to take, for both of you. After all, the way that they are, naturally -- the kind of person that they are -- has always worked for them up till now, right? But neither of you should fall into the trap of criticism and hurt feelings, or of trying to change your lover to fit a standard that's just not them. Instead, be yourselves; learn what you can from each other; and take a step back to allow your lover to do things in their own way.