This person brings a warm and positive perspective to your home life. They help you to look into your past and make peace with it, if need be; to bridge gaps that might exist between you and your family, or to understand things that happened long ago that left their mark on you, maybe even before you were old enough to understand. They take a deep and caring interest in your roots, in the cultural influences that have come together to make you who you are.
They actually encourage you to think more about these things than you may have on your own; they help you to take a close and generous look at all the people and events in your life that have influenced you, and to forgive those that need it. This person helps you start to see a pattern that's related to who you are today. What a wonderful gift for your lover to give to you! This aspect lends itself well to a long-term relationship between you, because it fosters such a feeling of understanding and support; but even if yours is a short-term affair, you both gain a lot from it. You help each other to create a sacred space in your home, or maybe just in your heart -- one that you can retreat to for solitude and to gather your strength when you need it.