Your lover can actually inspire you to express yourself more clearly and honestly. Especially when compared to so many relationships in which the merging of two personalities means the submerging of parts of both, this is a true gift, and one to be properly appreciated. Whatever high-flying, abstract or generally not well-founded ideas you may have, your lover can find a way to give expression and function to those ideas.
They have a sobering effect on you, in a way that helps you to stabilize your thought processes. If you normally have trouble being decisive or mapping out a path for yourself, this relationship could be just the thing you need to get serious and find direction in your life. Any troublesome aspects that may exist between you, ones that would otherwise negatively affect your relationship, are greatly helped by this influence, because your communication is strong and beneficial to you both. You're able to talk honestly about any problems or issues that might come up between you. More than that, you make a great working team. There is a serious sort of creativity that happens when you're together; you bring up an idea and your lover can figure out how to make it solid and workable. They help you concentrate and separate your better ideas from your not-so-solid ones.