You two have formed a great communicative bond, because your partner really wants to know what you have to say about things. They come to you for advice, for a laugh, for your own, unique perspective on things -- and you both have a great time talking. But more than fun, the particular mental energy created between you can be used for a specific and beneficial purpose.
You help this person become more fully self-realized by encouraging them to think both broadly and in specifics. Translation? You help them come up with a game plan that works, but you also help them learn to do that on their own. You two can spend a lot of time talking about your intellectual and literary ideas, too, and your lover makes you feel really interesting and smart, because they're so hungry for your perspective. There was a familiarity between you from the start, in your conversations and the kinds of ideas you each occupy your minds with -- you two have like minds, and you're instinctively comfortable with each other, even while your interactions spark excitement in both of you. And over time, you've likely realized that the subjects you discuss together are even more important than you realized, as they help to form your lives and your paths into the future.