There is a strong sexual pull between you, which can be quite compelling -- and it could make you think there's more between you that's worth holding on to than there really is. This aspect is a really difficult one for either of you to handle, as it brings up so much anger, resistance, rebellion and aggression between you. Even if you're ordinarily quite placid, you know you're provoked more than you would have ever thought possible in this relationship!
Unless other aspects between you help create a feeling of understanding and commonality, you two just have a really hard time getting along together -- except when you're being physically intimate, of course, and even that could take on a dimension of control and aggression that you should try to avoid. It's not that feeling angry or expressing it is wrong; that's natural. There's an element of aggression that can be exciting and appropriate in our sex lives. But the ways that you express your anger at your partner can be extreme; somehow, they bring up the deepest, strongest feelings of rage and resentment that you have hidden in the depths of your soul. You have to work hard to learn the lesson that this influence offers -- how to calm yourself in the face of rage; how to love someone right and treat them well, even when you're feeling as if you can't stand them. To a certain extent, you two just have to expect and accept that there will always be major battles and intense power struggles.