Without plenty of harmonizing aspects to stabilize your connection and promote good feelings between you, this aspect could be the downfall of this relationship because of the hostile energy it creates. You notice that whenever you're around each other, you feel excited and touchy, ready to react to anything your partner does or says -- and even to imagined slights. Though you might start off with a strong sexual bond, that could be burning out fast in the face of the hard feelings that spring up between you.
After a while, you find that you want it at different times and in different ways, and the differences offend you! The problem is that your basic approach to life, to how you get things done on a day by day basis, is at odds. You aren't able not to take things personally; in a sense, you have the effect of poison ivy on each other -- a spreading irritation that only seems to get worse. When arguments arise, you both get hostile and defensive fast, even if that's not your normal nature. You feel the tension in your bodies when you're together: a low-grade headache, hunched shoulders, furrowed brow ... It's hard to relax when you're together, and if you let yourselves indulge in petty arguing, it only gets harder. Exercising extreme patience is the only way to get through this difficult influence, but this aspect makes patience almost unattainable.