This relationship is confusing for both of you. Though you try to be upbeat and enthusiastic when you get together, you might find that your energy is sapped through the course of your interactions, and you almost seem to walk away from each exchange feeling drained, even depressed. This happens because your partner has a dissolving effect on your energies.
Everyone works better and more effectively when their energy is focused, and your lover has an almost chaotic effect on your focus. You aren't able to concentrate when you're together; the plans you make often fall apart, and you could start to feel as if you just shouldn't even try -- what's the use, after all? Sexually this is likely a really difficult aspect to deal with. All your drive and potency could be drowned in your lover's wash of emotions. But don't worry too much. Though this is all sounding pretty negative, there is a definite positive side to this influence. For one thing, your partner encourages you to be more loving and compassionate. That same energy that washes away your energies also encourages you to slow down and tune in to your intuitions. After all, it could be that your plans fall through because they weren't well founded in the first place. And they stimulate your creativity. But romantically, this could be a difficult influence to bear, because your partner's emotions overwhelm and effectively drown your desires.