This aspect sets things up, but leaves the hard work up to you. You're drawn to each other, but sometimes you might look at each other and wonder why, exactly, you ever got involved. You might feel from time to time as if your lover is selfish -- as if their needs always come first, and yours are put on the back burner as a result.
It's true in any relationship, even the best ones, that it's difficult to create a healthy balance between our own needs as an individual and those of the relationship or of our partner. The truth is, all of us are selfish at least some of the time; in fact, a certain amount of selfishness is healthy, even if, on the outside, it may not look like the best thing for the relationship. These are the kinds of choices that need to be made, balancing acts that need to be perfected on a daily basis. If you feel as though you're really being neglected in your love relationship, you have to take a certain amount of responsibility for letting it happen. After all, it takes two to tango, as they say! Are you voluntarily allowing yourself to be overlooked, or even willingly subverting your needs in favor of meeting your lover's? If you can learn to talk to each other and to respect what your partner tells you about their needs and their feelings, you stand a strong chance of making it work long-term.