You might want to think about extending your relationship from lovers to something more public, more networking-related, because you don't want to miss out on the opportunities this relationship reveals to you. The way that you lead your life naturally enhances and supports your lover's needs in a public, social sphere. They need a boost -- they need to get out there, network with important people who can help to power their career forward -- and they find that you're able to help them out a lot.
As long as they talk about their goals and aspirations with you, you're able to help them figure out how to achieve them. Maybe you both live life in the public eye to start with, so this networking, self-promotional persona isn't hard to slip into. Together, you're a powerhouse couple! You bring star power and glitz to any party or engagement you go to together. You chat up the VIPs and establish an easy rapport with each other and everyone else in the room. You have a very natural and easy way of doing things that you're able to teach your lover by example -- a natural social grace and charm, an instinctive way of seeking out opportunities and grabbing hold of them. If you can motivate your lover to push themselves and reach farther than they thought they could, you both get the most out of this aspect.