Your past partners have walked through life oozing power and intensity, a potent combination that left you helpless in its wake. Notice the choice of words: helpless. You were dazzled and impressed by your lovers, to be sure, but most of all you felt curiously weak.
You let them make all the decisions. You didn't stand up for yourself. You felt more like a wuss than ever, and you couldn't see a way out. Even worse, your lovers seemed to delight in having the upper hand. You'd rather be the one to choose when, where and how you'll see those enchanted by your charms, but in most relationships you're left waiting by the phone. You were so confused about your partners' feelings and intentions that you even started uttering those dreaded four words: 'What are you thinking?'If you want to sustain a viable connection, you're going to have to go about it more cleverly. You pick partners who are into head games, so play a few yourself. Stop reacting to your lover's obvious manipulations. Stay cool. Just enjoy yourself. Your ideal lover will be irresistibly attracted by your confidence, and you'll stop feeling like an also-ran.