What secrets were behind your lovers' dreamy, far-off gaze? You had no idea, really, and the mystery drove you mad. In one way it seemed so romantic to be attached to such compelling, enigmatic sweeties, but you could never figure out all their secrets.
Instead, you filled the information void with your fantasies. And therein was your problem. You were not involved in something solid and real at all; instead you were locked in on a shifting miasma. Darned sexy, and lots of fun, but it's like mist, or fog; when you tried to hold on to your lover, they slipped through your hands and refused to be captured. Will you ever gain a more solid hold on your relationships? You've simply got to, because what you've had in the past has drifted away and left you empty. You've been too busy enjoying your fantasy life to try to inject any reality into your relationships. Here's your wake-up call: Start examining what you're doing with a more critical eye. There's much love yet to come for you and it's time to start facing it like an adult.