You're a person who likes to have a lot of fun with their partner. In the past, you've chosen lovers who were as intelligent, expansive and cheerful as you, and you liked people who had interests in common with yours. And that's a good thing.
You've been part of some warm, dynamic duos that other people wanted to be around, just so they could bask on your glow. However, what outsiders didn't see was the somewhat hollow middle beneath the gleaming exterior of your relationships. You were so busy having fun together, so immersed in enjoying yourselves, that you never bothered to dig deep. Did you even discuss what each of you wanted from the relationship? What direction you hoped to go in, and when? You're fun and attractive so you have no problem meeting people. You are well-placed to move ahead into a fulfilling and lasting relationship. But in order to get there, you're going to have to do some work. Talk about what you want, and listen to what your lover is looking for. Do not ignore what you hear in order to gloss over any potential conflicts; instead, seek compromises. The longevity you seek can be yours provided you are willing to bend just a little.