Everyone has their price, or so it's said. Yours comes not only in the form of money, but also good meals, fine wines, rich chocolate, red roses, sparkling jewels...you get the idea. You're a most sensual soul, enjoying earthly delights to the best of your ability.
And you see nothing wrong with trading a little of this (your good loving) for a little of that (your favorite of the above-named pleasures). This wheeling and dealing may work out for a while, but in the end, it leaves you feeling, well, cheap. There are better ways to value yourself. Your loving is good, very good, so don't underestimate it. You are comfortable and tenderhearted, kind and well-liked by others for your warmth and sympathy. Your ideal lover will easily recognize these fine qualities and won't take advantage of your plodding, patient nature. Instead, they'll appreciate the affectionate and loyal person they've found, and they will indulge you, probably more than is good for you. But, this is one expression of love that you truly understand.