People have probably mentioned to you what unusual lovers you always seem to choose. You certainly didn't add up on paper with any of them. You've always been the solid and reliable one, holding down a good job and trotting through life's paces staunchly.
So why do you choose partners who were so radically different from you? Your past lovers have been movers-and-shakers, given to dramatic (and nerve-wrackingly sudden!) life-changing moves, glamour and indulgence. Something about the two of you worked -- at least for a while. Perhaps it was the 'opposites attract' principle. It wasn't all sunshine and roses, though. You were quite jealous and possessive, a quality your lovers found particularly unappealing. It left them feeling stifled, rebellious -- and ironically, in the mind frame to stray.If your jealousy can be conquered, you've got much to recommend yourself. You're intelligent and modern; your conversation sparkles and snaps. With some thought and effort, you can find the balance between commitment and freedom. The jealous partner within you must vow to lighten up a little -- and then actually do it. Giving up those negative emotions will remove the anchor that weighs you down.