There's an old Chinese proverb that goes like this: 'May you live in interesting times.' On the surface it seems like a blessing. But you of all people could confirm that it can also be a curse. You're an 'interesting' person so you attract 'interesting' partners.
Those previous lovers who claimed your heart, they were exciting all right -- and completely unpredictable. Maybe you used to come home at night to find that your lover had changed the curtains in the living room or, oh, changed careers and made plans to move to Antarctica. Managing the day-to-day problems were troublesome, too, when one of you wouldn't show up half the time. You can live with a certain amount of instability, but even you have your limits. Except these are the kinds of things you're going to have to roll with if you're going to make a successful relationship. Don't ask for stability from a live wire. Instead, enjoy the passion and intensity that's the silver lining of the rather dramatic life you've chosen. You may not have quiet nights snuggling on the sofa with your dream partner, but you will have the kind of love relationship that makes for great stories -- and great highs.