Yikes! Your previous love relationships have been a rather tense place to be. There was more than enough suspicion to go around, and what was crystal clear was the tension it caused.
Pockets were gone through, emails intercepted. Phone bills were pored over. It was all so tedious and tacky, two lovers treating each other like enemy agents instead of best buddies. Yet the friction kept erupting, no matter how you struggled to subdue it. Both of you analyzed just about everything the other said and did, seeking hidden meanings. Was that argument really over the laundry, or was it about something deeper? And the breakups? Well, they weren't pretty.Chill out, Sherlock. The problem at the root of all this instability is your insecurity, coupled with your secretiveness. Take these words to heart: No one who's happy will stray. In order to hold on to the one you love, you have to be the kind of person you'd like to come home to. Don't demand and bluster and question; be the easy, lively you that you are when you're running on all your cylinders. You'll see very shortly that your ideal lover is wooed by your wiles alone.