If your love life were a dining table, it'd be one of those long mahogany jobbies you see in the movies about awkward rich people. You'd be at one end, your lover at the other, and stretching between you would be a vast, unnavigable distance. You've had problems melding with past partners.
Conversations suffered, and miscommunications abounded. You clearly didn't understand each other, and in the end it was difficult to see why you bothered with each other at all. Finally, one of you walked -- despite the great, overwhelming attraction you felt at first. What a charmer they were!Sad truth is, you may always have problems completely understanding another. So why bother agitating over the differences between you and your current or future partner? Yes, yes, you'll lack commonality in many areas, but who said that one person had to be everything to their lover? Seek out simpatico pals for the activities your lover would rather skip. Keep up a busy social life, but be sure to spend plenty of time alone, just experiencing your love as it comes instead of thinking that you have to dissect it to understand it.