Have you ever bothered to look before you leapt into a lover's arms? Or have you just followed your heart and your foolish, fierce emotions? There was a lot that drew you to those lovers, including the incendiary passion you felt in each other's arms.
But you were equally repulsed by your their unpredictable behavior. You could not get the commitment you sought. Heck, you weren't even sure you knew who they really were! Sometimes you sensed the unfathomable distance between you. Was it love you felt, or simply an infatuation that couldn't last?You are not destined to have one of those loves that's cozy and sweet, like a cat curled up by a fireplace. Rather, you'll keep grasping on to live wires. You are faced with a choice -- you can keep holding on, enjoying all that is electric and exciting and thrilling about your lovers. Or you can let go and relax into a quieter, easier existence. If you choose the former, you're going to have to learn to ask fewer questions, demand less, ride out changes and tumult rather than expecting or asking for security. It's an amazing ride -- if you have the stomach for the ups and downs.