It's not that you haven't loved your past sweeties, it's just that you found them all to be big ol' pains in the butt. While you are courageous and fearless, wanting only to go and do and strive, your lovers were like a big bucket of cold water on your hot impatience. You were reminded of unpleasant realities, and not diplomatically, either.
You were often made to feel like a silly child rather than a competent adult. And inside you felt like a rebellious teenager, wanting to stand up to the strictures your lovers placed on you, and break out of the box you were enclosed within.If you're really determined to find success in this business of love, you must be willing to pay the price. You must cool off a bit, become more of a listener and thinker and less of an impulsive doer. Your ideal lover, on the other hand, should be supportive and loving, not someone who squelches your ideas wholesale. Together you could create a great big beautiful grown-up relationship, but you must stop wasting your energy on strife and start channeling it into positive directions.