It's no use trying to fit a square peg into a round hole, they say, but that never stopped you from trying to nitpick your lovers into submission. You're full of aggression and energy -- and that's usually a good thing, but in the realm of love, your drive has gone awry. Your irresistible force keeps coming up against immovable objects: your stern, sexy, stubborn lovers.
You were convinced you could change them into just the person you wanted to be with. Why couldn't you see that all your demands were getting you nowhere? Rather than comply with your directives, your lovers pulled away. You viewed this retreat as a challenge, and pushed harder. And thus a cycle was set up, where the more you chased the further your lover withdrew.If you want your lovers to stick around, you'd better cool your jets a little. Back off. Give them a break. Your way is not THE way, and you don't know it all. Maybe if you spent a bit more time trying to understand the way your lover does things rather than demanding that everything go your way, you could channel some of that extra energy into fun and passion rather than draining it all away with anger.